Compassionate Listening, Part Two

When I was in my reflexology certification program, several mornings started with a reading from a poem titled “The Unity of All Life,” by Evelyn G. Mulford. Notice how the first few lines make you feel:

“The carbon atoms that whirl and dance in me came from South Africa, and were the ones which chose to be me instead of a diamond.

My iron atoms lay for aeons in their bed in Minnesota, and the copper dancers within me came from Montana.

The salt in my tears and blood washed upon the shores on earth for billions of years, and prehistoric fish swam in my water.

My atoms were in one of the first flying creatures that dared to overcome the law of gravity.

Even now they whisper ‘Freedom.’”

Pretty cool, eh? But it goes on:

“I was part of the fire that consumed sacrifices.

My atoms were in the blood of wounded feet at Valley Forge and Gettysburg.

My atoms were in the hand that placed the ‘crown of thorns’ on the Master….

I was part of many weapons that killed in the name of love and peace.”

How did that make you feel? It made me feel uneasy. I don’t WANT to be part of the ugly aspects of life, but I am. We all are. We are ALL connected—all of humanity, all the elements in the universe, all of history. 

The carbon, iron, salt, and freedom, the inspiring things and the violent things that comprise me also make up YOU, and your loved ones, and also the people who stand firm for everything you or I stand wholeheartedly against.

The poem includes the lines, “I came from far reaches of infinity to become a part of humanness. … My own grandeur is more than I can contemplate. I am part of all that is or ever will be. … You are part of me and I of you, and there is only one Presence and one Power.”

It’s true. We are magnificent—I am, you are, and so even is the person who chooses in one heated moment to write something very ugly on a Facebook post. 

I hope we can try harder to live in the Middle Way—to listen with compassion, to appreciate someone’s passion and grandeur even when we vehemently disagree. 

Carrie Jones concludes her article with “I am loving everyone for the light energy they permeate and not the opinions they carry. I am a safe place and I will be listening, learning, and loving.”

May we all be!

Sources: 

“The Middle Way: When Clients Vent, by Carrie Jones, “Massage & Bodywork” Magazine, November/December 2018

“The Unity of All Life,” by Evelyn G. Mulford, originally published in the newsletter “Phenomena” as “Thoughts while Contemplating Teihard de Chardin.”

Category : Blog &Health &Massage Therapy &Personal Growth Posted on June 26, 2019

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